Romance- my view

This is my view of Romance.

When I get married, I want to know the person I'm meant to married well, like a good friend. I want to court him with a group setting.

I strongly believe God will put my future husband in my path if I'm meant to get married.

I look at it this way:

When you follow God, he'll direct you down a path he's meant for you, you'll meet people, get opportunities. and some where along that path, he'll direct my future husband in my path and we'll meet, get to know each other and get married all in God's timing.

i like approaching a relationship this way: you approach it in saying " What purpose has God placed me in this relationship for?" when you meet a guy.

God will show you I'm confident of that.

I view marriage as a commitment. its like friends. A man and a lady joined together for life. They grow together and when that happens its beatiful, the lasting commitment the wisdom they reap.

Our society these days makes marriage look like they do it for the fun and when the thrill of the relationship ends they end up divorcing and start all over again. THAt is not commitment! that is what Hollywood and the movies portray.

And I see girls these days wishing for their husbands to come, sweep them off their feet and give them flowers, comment on their looks, flatter them and hold their hand-" thats what I want" they say.

and I think- yes every girl likes feeling flattered, but is that all they want out of the guy? if their super romantic. they get married.

A year later, the romanticness has subsided, the mother is frazzled is busy with feeding her kid and the husband walks in tired from work and asks " Whats for dinner? I'm hungry,"

And they wonder why they got married in the first place if it was only for the romanticness of it.

And thats what I think is the downfall of it is with girls wishing for the romantic man, thats nice that gives them flowers that kisses them that flatter them.

When I get married I want to get married to the guy I love and i know and want a lasting relationship to the end of life together for commitment not just for the romantic aspect of it.

I don't think of my future husband every hour, I pray for him when he comes to mind. I'm following God's direction and until then when I meet him I go on with my life.

that is my view.

Dance With God and he'll send your love in when its time..